Thoughts on Photographing Your Own DITL with Alaina Miles

We’re surrounded by photographers shooting their Day in the Life projects and offering these sessions to clients. If you’re anything like me, you’ve become too busy to do your own and too “I really don’t want to invest in a photographer when I can take our family photos myself with a little strategy to get in the frame once in awhile.”

And then, you look at your many digi-files filled with photos only to see it’s been over a year since the last time you intentionally took photos to remember this season of your life. You have lots of photos of random things and moments here and there, but nothing that actually speaks about your reality. I’m totally guilty of this. It’s been almost 18 months since the last time I photographed one a day in our world.

When I saw Alaina’s wildly incredible Day in the Life, I thought, “Why am I NOT doing this for us? For me?” As a passionate photographer, why have I let a part of my core values slip away? And how do I get the motivation and momentum to pick up the damn camera or hire someone I admire to photograph us? Why is so hard to say YES to our own self-care and happy tasks? So, in hopes Alaina’s energy and fire was contagious, I reached out to her for a deeper look inside her own Day in the Life project.

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Why shooting your day in the life was important for you?

Shooting this day in the life was important to me because I want to one day photograph this way for other families and I feel
that I can’t document for others without having done it for my own family. I feel as if I don’t BELIEVE what it is that I am
trying to achieve, potential clients won’t believe it either. It is also important to me because I want to preserve the now in my
family. We are a family who bounces around every few years and I want to preserve our time right here, right now.

How you prepared in advance to capture these images?

To be honest there wasn’t a lot of preparation for documenting this day. I had been saying for quite some time now that I was
going to do a day in the life for myself I just didn’t know when. While on Facebook one night, someone asked about a dinosaur exhibit and if anyone knew when it was going to come back to town. Someone else commented with a link to the T-Rex Planet & said that they didn’t know about the other exhibit but this T-rex thing was going to be in town this weekend. I clicked on the link and checked everything out and thought oh we should totally go to that. My little man is crazy about dinosaurs. He has watched Jurassic World and Jurassic Park so much he knows the lines to the movies from beginning to end and he’s ONLY 3. So I asked my best friend whose son happens to be my little man’s best friend if they wanted to tag along so the boys could see the dinosaurs and they obliged. Once all the details were settled it was then that I decided that would be the day I would shoot my day in the life. I commented in the documentary group asking for pointers and such in regards to documenting your own family and a few folks reached out. One particular comment stuck with me and that was to get all of your gear together the night before and sleep with your camera next to your bed so when you wake up in the morning you can just start documenting.

What was your thought process behind it?

Be simple and document the things I don’t want to forget. I had never done something like this and with the little bit of
knowledge I did have I didn’t want to blow it by over thinking what all I wanted captured. At the end of the day the goal was to
remain present but still photograph the day.

What was the experience like for you?

Fun but CHALLENGING!! I really enjoyed just shooting for myself but found it to be a challenge balancing being present with my
family and documenting the day. I didn’t want to miss out on making memories WITH them but I also didn’t want to miss
photographing a moment. Especially if it was something that I knew wasn’t going to happen again.

What did you learn?

Technically, I learned I need to work on my exposure triangle and make sure I’m getting everything right in camera. I also need to
become more comfortable with my camera. I get so lost in trying to get that shot that I tend to fumble some times and end up
missing it all together.Personally, I learned my husband would rather be chauffeured and was utterly disappointed that he had to drive so I could document our day. LOL






























What was your biggest take home from this experience?

THIS IS YOUR ART. YOUR STORY… so tell it how you want it to be told. I’m TERRIBLE when it comes to comparing myself to
other photographers. I see the work of others and think “Gosh!” “why am I not that good?” When I know good and well these
photographers have worked so hard to get where they are at and at the end of the day I’m never going to be THAT
photographer. I’m going to be me! I have to continue to work hard at my craft and I’ll be all I hope to be.

What do you feel you executed very well and what would you do differently next time?

I feel that I executed shooting the details very well. From the music we were listening to, to the different times of the day, and all
of my sons toys. What I would do differently next time is be in more of the frames. I documented my life & have but one frame of
me in it… (shaking finger tisk tisk) and photographing my shoes doesn’t technically count in my book. Next time I will be paying
more attention to my composition, angles, and not staying dead centre. I also would like to improve on my storytelling skills.


Intro from Marie Masse. Images and responses from Alaina Miles Photo. 

headshotffAbout Alaina: Alina is originally from Sunny San Diego but currently resides on the beautiful Island of Oahu. She is 26 years young, a wife, mother and fur mom to a wild bunch. Alaina has an infatuation with clouds and trees. She loves food and traveling, but hates packing. Besides photography, music is her happy place and she can jive to anything! She’s just a mama trying to find her way in this thing called life.   Website // Facebook // Instagram



Author: Eboni Rivera
Fearless and Framed's Course and Community Ambassador + Self proclaimed "Memory Giver". Eboni is a Family Documentary Photographer and Film Artist at Luxe Art Images, LLC located in Long Island, NY. She provides emotive, heart-tugging, feel good photography and films for families who give a damn about the preservation of their memories. Her approach to photography allows families to leave behind a legacy of who they are, how much they love and just how awesome their lives truly are.

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